Blog naked? Blog privacy and vulnerability
Friday, May 9th, 2008Blog naked? I am not talking about you wear or don’t wear while in front of your computer, but how much do you choose to expose of yourself to the world as you blog. On the class message board, several students have been expressing concern about how much of themselves that they want to share with the Internet world and that is important consideration that each blogger needs to weigh. This isn’t just a concern for beginning bloggers but experienced bloggers as they weigh the pros and cons of sharing themselves online. Sonia Simone at CopyBlogger was inspired by last week’s Biz School for Bloggers to write a great post on this topic, titled Feel Great Naked. She does a great job of offering hints about protecting yourself and the ones you love while providing a convincing argument about how it is the personal aspects of blogging that engage your reader. She also touches on the use of aliases and gives examples of professionals who have opted to work under a pseudonym.
We have been talking about using an alias on the class message board and I cover it this week’s lesson. You can develop an online persona for a number of reasons. The primary reason is to protect your identity. There are two factors to consider. The first that is if the only thing that you change is your name, what you write about will often give your readers clues about you like the region/city that you live, the composition of your family, your lifestyle, your socioeconomic background etc. I use one of my aliases “Frumpz” on a review blog. Generally readers won’t know that Bean Fairbanks is Frumpz but after reading the fourth post on Washington wine, Seattle restaurants and/or Seattle events, they probably can figure out that I am in the Seattle area. I am quite comfortable with that level of exposure. The review blog would be meaningless if I chose to hide the locations of the reviews.
The second factor to consider is what will I do if I develop this online persona and I want to do more with it. This something regular authors struggle with when they are known for one style of writing but want to try something very different under a different name. They may choose this due to a fear of failure or a fear of alienating their current fans. What do you do when that new writing style takes off and your publisher wants you on tour and your face on the book jacket? Related to this is that blogging is more than just writing posts, it is about gaining authority to attract readership. How will this online persona promote the blog? Will you use this persona to comment on other blogs and build a reputation? I often use another persona online when I am promoting women’s health issues and relationships. Gender, health, sexuality and relationships can be “hot button” topics. That persona could talk about my experiences as working as a patient model for the medical school. I probably don’t really want potential customers or students to base their decision to hire me on the fact that I use my (naked) body to teach physical exams, I want them to base their hiring decision on my technical and business skills. The persona that I use to develop authority in health promotion is different than the one I use to teach computer and business skills.
Oops! I just put information on an official business blog about something that I said I might not want students to know. In actuality, I thought about the disclosure and I felt OK about it. I made a purposeful choice to disclose that personal information because I decided that served the blog post in two ways. First, it was a real life example of using alternate personas for different aspects of who I am. Notice I did not give you the name of that persona. Truthfully if you REALLY searched for it you might find it but not without some serious work on your part. Secondly, that disclosure demonstrated a conscious choice on my part to share information that gives you more information as a teacher. I don’t just teach online computer classes, I also have taught for years at the medical school and the naturopath university. Maybe, just maybe, that gave me more authority in your eyes and built my reputation in your eyes. I gambled. It might have backfired. You might think that is too weird that your instructor sometimes teaches naked (well I am wearing a hospital gown so I might as well be naked!) or someone that teaches in a medical school is going to be too technical of a teacher for this course or… Your comments to this post will let me know if my gamble paid off.
As Sonia points out, it is the personal information that hooks us. It allows us to connect with the author in a different way and we often care more about what they say. The trick is to do it as a well informed decision versus a slip of the keyboard mid rant. I really stress planning your blog in the first week of class so you can make some of these choices. Sonia stresses the need for planning as well.
Don’t wing it. Sit down and work out, in writing, exactly what you will and won’t talk about. Maybe you’ll talk about old boyfriends but not your current husband, or you’ll say anything about your parents but nothing about your kids. Decide exactly where you draw the line, and live by that.
If you write a post that goes over your particular line, you can edit it and save the personal stuff for your private journal, or sleep on it (at least two nights, ideally) and post it anyway. Either way, you’ll have made a conscious decision.
Sonia says use your personal journal but you can also password protect the post as another option. The other thing that she stresses and with which I agree is that you share only what is yours, and not some one’s elses story.
As covered in the lesson, there is a huge spectrum of private to public online. In the lesson I mentioned some people have lost their jobs due to their blogs. The most famous is Heather (Hamilton) Armstrong whose blogging about being fired made her famous Heather not only blogs “naked”, she runs down the street naked waving a banner saying LOOK AT ME!. She says whatever is on her mind and is not shy about sharing her thoughts and prejudices in colorful language and humor. Her blog Dooce is not for the thin skinned or faint of heart. Sometimes I think it aometimes goes towards Too Much Information (TMI) but it also so popular that she was just on the Today show and her blog supports her entire family so the parents can stay at home with the kids.
Not all successful blogs have a personal element, but many do. This includes business as well as personal blogs. Businesses that can bare their mistakes and show the actions that they have taken to remedy the situation gain trust and customer loyalty. It will be up to you decide how personal in nature your blog will be overall and on a post by post basis.
